Code of Conduct

I understand that MYA follows a strict Zero Tolerance Policy for unsafe, abusive, or disrespectful behavior—including toward referees, teammates, opponents, and coaches. If I violate this policy, I may be subject to suspension or removal from the program.

 Creating a Safe and Positive Environment for All Players

At Merrimack Youth Soccer (MYA), we believe that parents and guardians are key partners in fostering a healthy, fun, and respectful environment for youth soccer. This Code of Conduct outlines the expectations we have for all parents/guardians involved in the program.

By enrolling your child in MYA, you agree to the following:

• I will show respect to all players, coaches, referees, and spectators at all times.
• I will not yell at, criticize, confront, or harass referees, players, coaches, or other parents during or after games.
• I will never enter the field of play unless instructed by a coach or referee.
• I will refrain from using vulgar, obscene, or abusive language at all times.
• I will not engage in physical or verbal altercations at any MYA event.
• I will model good sportsmanship, regardless of the outcome of the game.
• I understand that referee abuse is against New Hampshire State Law (RSA 631:4-b) and could result in criminal penalties and bans from youth sports events.
• I understand that parent misconduct may result in disciplinary action against my child, including suspension or removal from the team or program.
• I understand that parent misconduct may result in disciplinary action including suspension or removal from the sideline.
  

• I will support my child by encouraging effort, teamwork, and fun—not just wins.
• I will allow the coach to coach and the referee to officiate.
• I will help my child understand that mistakes are part of the game and an opportunity to grow.
• I will communicate respectfully with coaches and league officials, following proper channels.

MYA Soccer Player Code of Conduct

What It Means to Represent Merrimack Youth Soccer

As a player representing Merrimack Youth Soccer (MYA), you are part of a team and community. Your effort, attitude, and sportsmanship matter—on and off the field. The expectations below help us keep soccer fun, safe, and fair for everyone.

• I will always try my best and work hard during practices and games.
• I will show respect to my teammates, coaches, opponents, and referees.
• I will never argue with or talk back to the referee, even if I disagree with a call.
• I will use positive language and encourage my teammates.
• I will not engage in bullying, teasing, or name-calling of any kind.
• I will play fair and follow the rules of the game.
• I understand that cheating, unsportsmanlike behavior, or fighting will not be tolerated.

• I will be on time and prepared for all practices and games.
• I will let my coach know if I cannot attend a practice or game.
• I will represent MYA positively in person and on social media.
• I understand that my behavior affects my team, and I will take responsibility for my actions.

MYA Soccer Coaches  Code of Conduct

Zero Tolerance Policy

• All persons wishing to coach must have an approved SafeSport account.  No potential coach shall receive a player roster or be allowed to coach without an account with the correct certifications.  
• No coach should conduct a practice without a t least one other adult being present (assistant coach, trainer, or parent).  
• No player is allowed to be left alone on the field.  
• All electronic communication between a coach and a player must include a player's parent or guardian.
• Coaches are expected to be present at all games and practices.  If absent, coaches should provide the name of their substitute to the league coordinator.  
• Yelling, criticizing, harassing, intimidating, sarcasm, and/or feedback directed at the referees is strictly prohibited both during and before/after games. 
• Vulgar, degrading, or obscene language is not allowed.  Nor is yelling, hollering, and screaming negative comments.  
• Any encouragement of unsafe play, foul conduct, and/or cheating or skirting league rules is prohibited.  
• The use of alcohol, tobacco, or controlled substances during nay MYA activity is prohibited.  The use of illegal substances will result in immediate discipline with notification of authorities.  
• If coaches have questions regarding particular calls, rules, or a referee, or wish to give feedback regarding a spectator, referee, parent, or fellow coach, please contact the league director at recreation@myasoccer.org, or travel@myasoccer.org.  

         Failure to comply with any of the above is grounds for dismissal from the field and expulsion from the program.  

Safety

• It is highly recommended that coaches become certified in basic first aid, and be prepared to handle first aid situations and medical emergencies at all practices and games.  
• Inspect players equipment and field conditions for safety reasons prior to any practices and games.  Notify division coordinators immediately about any hazards in or on your practice or playing fields.  
• Instruct players regarding safe techniques and methods of play.  Supervise your players to avoid injury situations as a best-effort policy.  

Ethics

• Be a positive role model.  
• Treat referees with respect and accept any decision given, and expect the same from both players and spectators.  
• Set the standard for sportsmanship by stressing fair play whether winning or losing with opponents, referees, administrators, and spectators.  
• Do not run up the scores.  Doing so discourages players.  
• Know and follow all rules set forth by MYA and/or travel leagues, as well as state and national associations.  
• Work in the spirit of cooperation with officials, administrators, coaches, and spectators to provide all participants with the maximum opportunity to develop.  
• Know and understand the Laws of the Game posted on the MYA Soccer website under the Coach's Section.  
• Use of emails, phone calls, and (most importantly) official app messages are the preferred and encouraged forms of communications with parents/players, and other coaches.  Social media use regardless of platform as a way to communicate with the above groups is discouraged.  

Player Development

• Keep the importance of winning and losing in proper perspective and develop the players' appreication of the game.  
• Be sensitive to each child's development needs, and allow player to experience all field positions. 
• The goal is for players to have fun and receive positive feedback.  Practice should be conducted in the spirit of enjoyment and learning.  
• Provide appropriate number and length of practice sessions according to the players' state of development.  
• Educate the players to the technical, tactical, physical, and psychological demands of the game for their level of play.  
• Strive to help each player reach his or her full potential, and be prepared to move to the next level .